There is nothing wrong keeping it up like what you always do. Tapi once you took someone into your life,willing to share your day with him/her. You should realize that there is a portion of your time need to be shared together. And, some of your casualties has to change to adapt and get along with your partner.
If she can value your jealousy as a sign of your love, why not you value her attach and clingy to you as a sign that she needs you.
If you cant,why dont we follow the simple rule. "Its your life and I wont bother."
Until the day you really account me as your life partner. Ring me and I'll be yours, just not now.